Often when women request something of a man, it’s alarming because a man doesn’t know if he wants or has the ability to meet her demands. But there’s one statement most man should go do when she tells you to do it. What is that statement? Its this one: come see me. Unlike the ‘we need to talk’, the come see me often ends with a positive beyond one’s wildest dreams. The ‘we need to talk’ statement is one coming from a place of fear, but the ‘come see me’ is one of desire, want and positive need to have you around.
As a man, you best thing to do in the ‘come see me’ situation is to do just that…go see her, feel it out and use your best judgment. If you like her, just go and enjoy yourself. See how she responds to your presence and have fun. Pique her interest in you a bit more may be one of the best decision you will make in your life or a real relationship. A woman who knows she wants you to come see her is a confident woman, one who refuses to happily string you along or play mind games. She wants to expose you to something better and help make you a better man. This is the kind of woman worth pursuing a relationship with, not a boring casual sex girl. She is not here to waste your time or put you in a position where your feelings could be hurt. How many women do you know would put themselves out there to treat you right and build a fun and exciting relationship just for you? Not many women will do so for a real relationship, but there are a rare few who are worth it and have the ability to maintain an incredible relationship with a great guy. Maybe that great guy is you. Here are things you can do to make your time with her special for you both and the beginning of a new and exciting relationship:
- Ask her questions about herself. Most people love to talk about themselves and this is a great opportunity for you to be charming and funny.
- Give her an opportunity to ask you questions about yourself. See if she can tell a few good jokes and let her touch you during your conversations to show her you welcome her attention.
- Give the time to see her a limit so you can make her want to enjoy seeing you more often. Yes, you need a time limit even when things are going well to keep her wanting more of you and showing her the level you have of self-respect. If she wants to spend time with you more, you can call her later or set up another time you can be together. Assert yourself and she will love and respect you more for it. This is the best way to see if her interest in you is legitimate and worth your time. Don’t get tied up with a girl only here for manipulating you to serve her own attention needs. You can distinguish a manipulative girl from one for keeps if she’s very flirty with all types of men and women and only spend time with you when she has a limited audience. You will want a girl who wants you for you and willing to go the extra mile to be with you. Show her you know what you want and willing to set limits with others to have something worth having. If she wants you in her life, she will need to play for keeps, so to speak. Good luck.