There are many components of passion and romance in a relationship but the most important is kissing. Some of you may be thinking that sex would be more important than kissing and while it is agreed that sex is essential to the height of passion and romance it is still not as important as kissing. Kissing not only speaks volumes about your partner before you ever get down to business but it also leads to the relationship and sex being more meaningful between the two of you. As crucial as kissing is to your romantic and sexual endeavors in your relationship, it is usually the first thing to go out of a relationship when it becomes more comfortable and routine. So take a moment and recall in detail the last time you truly kissed your partner, if you are having trouble with recalling it, it is time to embrace them, look them in the eyes and give it all you have. Before you do, let’s take a look at kissing and how you can make it more powerful than ever with a few tips.
- No rush. Sometimes we get rushed when it comes to intimacy but if you are going to slow it down anywhere, the kissing department is the place to do it. This is the time for slow and intentional kissing showing your need for them without saying a word. Even if your partner goes a little faster and you want to slow it down to make this more affectionate, usually just the act of slowing things down yourself can be a non-verbal cue to your partner. If they don’t get the hint however, just add a well placed whisper asking them to slow down or pull back from the kiss for a few moments before continuing. The important thing is to enjoy every last drop of the closeness and passion that kissing your partner is inciting.
- Teasing. While it could argued that when it comes to sex, teasing can be fun and ignite passion before even an article of clothing leaves a body. But teasing during kissing is more about prolonging the intimacy, so pulling back and taking moments to look your partner in the eyes before diving back into the deep kiss will do the trick. Another form of teasing is moving away from the lips and placing kisses along other zones of sensitivity. The important thing about teasing during kissing is that it lengthens the time you spend together in pure affection while making you want more of the same and beyond it.
- Technique. Kissing is more of an art form than a technical endeavor however technique in how you kiss the person at the receiving end of your intimate expression will be appreciated if you know what you are doing. Kissing may seem simple but there are ways you can take it’s simplicity to the next level leaving a lasting impression on your chosen kissing partner. Lips being slightly moistened before you begin is recommended but there is such a thing as too much moisture when it comes to kissing, the other person involved should not have to wipe their mouth after you pull away from the kiss. Also, romantic kissing is more like an intimate tango of passion not to be used to try to check to see if your partner still has their tonsils. Kissing, unlike sex, is a dance being choreographed by lovers in the moment that is never predetermined or thought about but only felt and followed.
Kissing is always the beginning of romance and passion in any relationship whether long term or for a night. To keep passion in a long term relationship, regular passionate and affectionate kissing will guarantee the flame will never go out. For a new relationship kissing not only ignites passion but tells you a few things about this potential partner in what kind of companion they will be and how good of a lover they are for you. Never underestimate the power of the kiss, it says more with your mouth than any words could ever express.