Okay–I’m fixing to make a comparison between marriage and bread but let me explain. Learning how to make your marriage feel new again is as easy as making a loaf of bread come back to life. You see, when you first pick up that loaf of bread from the market, it starts off fresh and full of life; however, the longer it sits there, the more stale it grows. Marriage is like that bread, because the longer you are married the more stale the lust for each other grows in your marriage. You have to find a way to put the spark back in your marriage by looking for new and fresh ideas to keep your spouse interested in you.
The goal here today is to teach you how to make your marriage feel like it did in the beginning for about the first two years. Recently, Sonja Lyubomirsky, professor of psychology at the University of California at Riverside in an NY Times article explained that a couple is hot for each other for the first 2 years of marriage and then again in about 18 years when the kids are grown and out of the house. What does that leave you to do for the 18 years you are raising your kids? That is exactly what I’m here to teach you today, so you can keep the lust for each other burning as strong as the love you have for each other throughout your marriage.
3 Ways To Make Your Marriage Feel New Again
Send Sexy Text Messages-Have you ever thought about sending your spouse a sexy text message but could never craft the perfect message? Relationship expert, Michael Fiore has created a solution to your problem. For women, you will be able to text the romance back by using the done for you text messages that have proven to be very effective at getting men to be more romantic. Men, you will be able to text your wife into bed by using the simple, yet effective text messages designed by Michael Fiore to play off of the female psychology.
Women can find out more about the Text The Romance Back program here.
Men can find out about the Text Your Wife Into Bed program here.
Make Your Spouse Feel Special-Do you remember back in the beginning of your relationship when you constantly tried to make your spouse feel special and loved? You have to find a way to keep doing that throughout your marriage in order to keep things fresh and exciting. Think of some of the ways you used to make your spouse feel special and start doing those things again. Also, add some new things to the mix so your spouse will be surprised. In return, your husband or wife will feel so good they will start finding ways to repay you for making them feel special.
Go on Date Nights-Taking a night away from work, kids, and all of the stresses of life with the one you love is a great way to keep the lust alive in your marriage. Do you remember back before you decided to have a family how you used to go on dates all the time. You would probably go out to a nice restaurant and then dancing or a movie, but the night always ended in the bedroom. Don’t think that just because you’re married and have a family that the fun has to end. Hire a babysitter for the night and go out on a date with your spouse. If you don’t know where to turn for child care, you can always visit Care.com and find an excellent babysitter for the night.
Final Thoughts on Making Your Marriage Feel New Again
By taking the time to learn how to make your marriage feel new again you will be able to get your spouse to love you more than ever before. It is important to keep things fresh and exciting through the years no matter how long you have been together. You vowed to spend the rest of your life with the person you are with, so why make that life a stale, boring one? Make your marriage feel new again by sending sexy text messages, making your spouse feel special, and going on dates the way you used to when your marriage was brand new.